Shirley was born on October 7, 1923, in Utica, New York. At fifteen during a summer vacation at Lake George, she met the love her life. They later married after she graduated from Syracuse University. So, what attracted him to her? She coyly said, “he was a good-looking guy and looked good in a swimsuit!” And, they had mutual interests and loved reading and traveling.
Shortly after getting married, her husband Herbert Edward enlisted in the Army to fight in WWII. Shirley became a housewife and fought the good fight at home. After the war, the Army Colonel became a Doctor of Optometry and opened an office in Carlisle. After 71 years of marriage and 33 years in the army, the retired colonel doctor passed away in 2016.